Americans Fly Hot air
Balloons and Indians Kites
With incessant smart hard work,
patience and perseverance, anyone can become a good KITE MAKER, a better KITE
RUNNER and the best KITE FLYER. One can touch the sky; it’s not so high
By Mukesh Sharma
The American are fond of flying hot air balloons,
particularly, in Arizona State of US, on any day of still wind in the evening
during winter, and in the morning during summer. And Indians love to fly kites
whenever they feel like especially on the occasions like 15th
August, Independence Day of India where the sky is studded with tri-colors
kites and kite flyers take on one another in self style and self-instituted
one-to-one match. Kite flying up in air are snapped and the falling kites are looted
- the most hilarious ‘hunt’ for the fallen kites among the youngsters.Man loves spoil sport.
But what is noteworthy, flying hot balloons reflects
American living style and social system. Each
balloon rises up, and rises under its own steam. With their eyes set on
rising air balloons, the crowd of onlookers cheers for the balloon flyer for
reaching a good height. Here the contestants never ever think of bringing down
the balloons of one another. It is maintained that in the vast expense of sky,
there is room for each balloon. Each has the right to touch the dizzy height. One must be envious not jealous.
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It is observed that right from childhood, American kids are
taught to respect the rights of others; they are made aware of their duties
towards self and society. Irrespective of race, caste or creed, the spirit of
fellow-feeling is inculcated. Kids are brought up with strict discipline; they
are taught to take decisions and to be responsible; they are taught to assert
their individuality. The dignity of
labour and social discipline is the hallmark of American life. People
exchange pleasantries even with the man of lowest rank and don’t mind doing
even menial work of their home. No household servant culture. If a child makes
mistake, it is made to realize it; it is made to feel that it must mend its
ways and must swear never to repeat the mistake. Sorry and thanks are inevitable part of day-to-day life. Good work
brings kudos. Rewards are earned. Undeserved gifts are never conferred on.
Surprisingly enough, be it he or she, children over 18 leave
their parents’ house; they do petty jobs to meet their own expenses; they live
by themselves; they learn to live as an individual not as a son or daughter of
a rich father or mother. Society is the
best teacher and the world is the best school. The struggling men and women
proudly say: “My father is rich man but I am not.” It shows their fighting
spirit. They know they have to redeem themselves. Even the Donald Trump is said
to have started his real estate business in his younger days by taking a ‘loan’
from his well off father. And loans are paid off.
On other hand kite-flying by Indians reflects the Indian
life style and social system. Unlike the hot air balloon that usually goes up
in still wind and is wafted by the current of wind at high altitude, a kite
flies against the blow of the wind. The flyer manoeuvers it; however high it
goes, it remains ‘leashed’to the hand of flyer with a string. Further, once a
kite is air borne, it always faces ‘mortal’ threats from other kites in the
sky; it cannot float free for a longer time. There are always chances that it
might get snapped by any other kite to usurp its position. Kill to survive is the rule of the game. Resigned to ‘fate’,
snapped kite has a free fall. Down on the ground, finder keeper is the
buzz-word. Loot is lawful.
The rules of kite flying game hold true to Indian survival
society also. Parents are over possessive and protective about their kids.
Children grow up in a cloistered life. ‘I’
, ‘my father’ and ‘my family’ are oft-repeated words that feed the ego of a
child. He or she grows up as an egoist. Further successful parents on a high
social ladder always have unquenchable lust for money; more and more money is
made and amassed not just for the children but for great great grandchildren -
wealth for seven generations. Proud parents wish to leave a rich legacy for
their children - a secured family wealth
and business which is guarded by elitist ego. Here it gives birth to NEPOTISM which is accepted in the
Indian society as a birth right. Likes of Sushant
Singh Rajput falls victim to deadly nepotism. And likes of Rahul Gandhi basks in the past glory
of his parents and family. Talent
withers well before the full bloom.
Statistically
speaking, one can rise to any height, if one is a diligent KITE MAKER, deft
KITE RUNNER and devilish KITE FLYER, particularly, in India. Netas are perfect
example of this “kite flying’ game in India.
In this age of cut-throat competition and confliction,
kite-flying is the need of the hour. As a kite flies against the wind, one must
learn to go ahead despite oddities in life. Never give up. Never give in without
fight. Know thyself. Discover your strength and weakness. Make your weakness
your strength and give life a good fight with DS (double strength). With
incessant smart hard work, patience and perseverance, anyone can become a good
kite maker, a better kite runner, and the best kite flyer. One can touch the
sky; it is not so high.